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<channel><title><![CDATA[REFINING FIRE MINISTRIES - FIRE FUEL]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel]]></link><description><![CDATA[FIRE FUEL]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 17:36:22 -0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Blessings Through Raindrops]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/blessings-through-raindrops]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/blessings-through-raindrops#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2020 20:52:33 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/blessings-through-raindrops</guid><description><![CDATA[James 1:2-4 (New International Version)Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.      Back in 2011, Laura Story wrote one of the most memorable Christian anthems thus far in the 21st century, &ldquo;Blessings.&rdquo; For those who don&rsquo;t know Laura&rsquo;s &ldquo;story,&rdquo; she wa [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">James 1:2-4 (New International Version)<br /><span></span>Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.<br /><span></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Back in 2011, <a href="x-apple-data-detectors://1">Laura Story</a> wrote one of the most memorable Christian anthems thus far in the 21st century, &ldquo;Blessings.&rdquo; For those who don&rsquo;t know Laura&rsquo;s &ldquo;story,&rdquo; she was a co-writer with <a href="x-apple-data-detectors://2">Chris Tomlin</a>of the 2004 smash worship hit, &ldquo;Indescribable&rdquo; and in 2005 she married her high school sweetheart, Martin Ellington. Within the first year of marriage, Martin began exhibiting troubling symptoms of forgetfulness of simple tasks, inexplicably falling asleep at work, and he grew an inch and a half in one month. The doctors ordered an MRI to attempt to diagnose the root of the problem.<br /><br />Shortly thereafter, while she was attending a music conference in 2006, she received a call from Martin who had been diagnosed with a brain tumor, which was pressing on his pituitary gland. Doctors successfully removed the tumor, but while he was in the hospital, he contracted meningitis which ultimately resulted in permanent memory loss, partial vision loss, and difficulty walking. As a result, Martin could no longer work, and Laura became the main financial provider for her family.<br /><br />In 2008, while struggling with anger toward God over her life circumstances, Laura received a call from INO Records in Nashville encouraging her to write a praise and worship album. While her natural inclination was to decline the invitation, know she having a difficult time worship her Creator. However, an INO executive challenged her with the question, &ldquo;What if God is asking you to write worship songs in the midst of your trials?&rdquo; It was during this time where she penned the following words:<br /><br />We pray for blessings, we pray for peace<br />Comfort for family, protection while we sleep<br />We pray for healing, for prosperity<br />We pray for Your mighty hand to ease our suffering<br />And all the while, You hear each spoken need<br />Yet love us way too much to give us lesser things<br /><br />Cause what if Your blessings come through raindrops<br />What if Your healing comes through tears<br />What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You&rsquo;re near<br />What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise?<br /><br />We pray for wisdom, Your voice to hear<br />And we cry in anger when we cannot feel you near<br />We doubt your goodness, we doubt your love<br />As if each promise from Your Word is not enough<br />And all the while, You hear each desperate plea<br />And long that we&rsquo;d have faith to believe<br /><br />When friends betray us<br />When darkness seems to win, we know<br />That pain reminds this hearts,<br />That this is not, this is not our home&hellip;<br /><br />What if my greatest disappointments,<br />Or the aching of this life,<br />Is the revealing of a greater thirst this world can&rsquo;t satisfy.<br />What if trials of this life,<br />The rain, the storms, the hardest nights<br />Are your mercies in disguise?<br /><br />Reading these isolated words, they are powerful on their own; but knowing Laura&rsquo;s &ldquo;story&rdquo; shows us a connection betweenGod&rsquo;s Word and our lives.<br /><br />The truth is: All of us are guilty of praying selfish prayers. We all want God to work in such a way that brings comfort to our lives and answers to our needs, as we see fit. We all want an easy life without conflict, not the James 1:2-4 life. However, life without conflict will yield a life without faith, reflected in prayerlessness. Conflict actually serves to make our stories of God&rsquo;s faithfulness memorable.<br /><br />Recently, my oldest daughter, Mikaela, told us she was getting married to an incredible young man who loves Jesus&hellip;and who just happens to be one of the two fastest men in the world. While we were initially excited, the reality set in on me that I was still responsible for the last four months of her apartment lease which would cost me over $6,000, including all bills. I need to also state that after this wedding, I don&rsquo;t just have an extra $6,000 lying around to take care of it. So, we started praying for God&rsquo;s provision.<br /><br />If I&rsquo;m honest, I&rsquo;ve really been frustrated with this apartment complex because she has had this leak since October 2019 that has been awful and lead to mildew and health issues for her. The third week of February, after months of me being told it was fixed, the leak was worse than ever and I was not feeling like a spiritual giant. As anxiousness and frustration started to overwhelm me, I stopped to pray. In that moment, I was completely at peace. It&rsquo;s amazing how prayer doesn&rsquo;t always change your circumstances, but it will always change you.<br /><br />To make a very long story short, two days later I was contacted by Mikaela&rsquo;s apartment manager and she told me the apartment needed to let us out of the lease and asked if we would be willing to sign a release form. Uh, yes! Think about this: Before I even knew I needed to get out of this lease, God allowed a life-changing leak, ignited by raindrops to serve as my deliverance. God gave me Blessings Through Raindrops (Literally).<br /><br />We need to remember the words of Romans 8:28 that God IS working all things together for our good, even when we don&rsquo;t see. Keep praying. Keep trusting. Keep believing. On a final note: The song &ldquo;Blessings&rdquo; won the Song of the Year at the 2012 Gospel Music Association Dove Awards and she was named artist of the year. God brought unexpected provision in Laura&rsquo;s &ldquo;story,&rdquo; and He will do the same for you and me.<br /><br /><br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>About the Author</span><br /><strong>&#8203;Kevin Harrison</strong><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Kevin Harrison is a phenomenal leader, pastor, and visionary. As President and founder of West Coast Bible College & Seminary, he has revolutionized the way that ministers are trained for the future. Having served as a plethora of leadership positions, he brings a very unique perspective and energy to any environment. Very well educated, Kevin received a bachelor's degree from Southwestern A/G University, a master's degree in religious education from Trinity Seminary, a Master of Business Administration in Marketing from LSU-Shreveport, and a Doctor of Ministry from Luther Rice College and Seminary. Dr. Harrison also serves as Vice President of Refining Fire Ministries, Inc.<br />&#8203;</span><br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><span><span><font size="6"><strong>Did you enjoy this inspirational article?</strong></font></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; margin: 0px auto 7px; padding: 0px; font-size: 1.4em; display: block; text-align: center;"><span style="margin: 0px auto 1em; padding: 0px; border: 0px; font-size: 1.25em; letter-spacing: -0.025em;"><font size="6">Join our email list and have the best content delivered!</font></span></span></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.lpage.co/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">SUBSCRIBE</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><span><span><font size="6"><strong>Thank you for your support!</strong></font></span></span></h2>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><span><span><font size="6">Refining Fire Ministries could not exist without your continued financial support. If you are not currently a partner, please prayerfully consider the seed that you can sow toward our vision for the future.</font></span></span></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-normal" href="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/give.html" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">GIVE</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Before the Throne]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/before-the-throne]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/before-the-throne#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 20 Feb 2020 02:03:19 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/before-the-throne</guid><description><![CDATA[           In these verses, we find the author, most likely the Apostle Paul, encouraging us to stay faithful to the faith, our belief system, and to whom our faith is founded upon &ndash; Jesus Christ. That same Jesus, whom we have our faith in, underwent temptation &ndash; the same temptation we go through &ndash; and he was able to weather the storms of temptation without sinning.Paul continues to say, because of Christ&rsquo;s understanding of temptation and struggle, that He is our &ldquo;h [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p150_3.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">In these verses, we find the author, most likely the Apostle Paul, encouraging us to stay faithful to the faith, our belief system, and to whom our faith is founded upon &ndash; Jesus Christ. That same Jesus, whom we have our faith in, underwent temptation &ndash; the same temptation we go through &ndash; and he was able to weather the storms of temptation without sinning.<br /><br />Paul continues to say, because of Christ&rsquo;s understanding of temptation and struggle, that He is our &ldquo;high priest&rdquo; &ndash; our advocate &ndash; who not only understands but also sympathizes with us in our weakness. He invites us to his &ldquo;throne of grace&rdquo;&hellip;to receive mercy and find grace in the midst of our temptation. <br /><br /><em>Allow me to dig deep here for a moment:</em> <br />I&rsquo;m convinced that too often we focus on the subject of the temptation and ignore the root of temptation. Some would argue whether or not Jesus ever dealt with the temptation of ___________ (fill in the blank with some &ldquo;verb or action&rdquo;). We don&rsquo;t know if Jesus ever dealt with the temptation to do drugs, look at pornography, steal, or fill in the blank with whatever sin you could imagine. What we do know though is that Jesus was tempted and that his temptation was less about the action of temptation and more about the heart underneath. <br />Notice a couple of realities when Satan came and tempted Jesus after his wilderness prayer retreat. Matthew 4<ul><li>Jesus was led to pray in the wilderness because soon He would be launching his ministry &ndash; <em>temptation is meant to sabotage the will of God in your life.</em></li><li>Jesus had spent 40 days fasting and was full of prayer &ndash; <em>Jesus was FULL of prayer and fasting. He had just spent 40 days in seclusion WITH God. Jesus wasn&rsquo;t just having a &ldquo;weak&rdquo; moment, he was rejuvenated</em> <em>spiritually. </em></li></ul><br /><strong><em>Remember</em></strong><strong> <em>temptation doesn&rsquo;t just come to the weak.</em></strong><ul><li>Each temptation presented to Jesus was within his ability (power) to do so &ndash; <em>Satan will work your mind when tempting you. He may present you with something that is within your own reasoning. It is not always the extremes that he tempts us with, in fact it rarely is. </em></li></ul><br /><strong><em>Remember, you may have the &ldquo;right&rdquo;, but it doesn&rsquo;t</em></strong><strong> <em>make it right. </em></strong><ul><li>Satan first tempted him with food because Jesus WAS hungry. &ndash; <em>The first entry point Satan tried to use was Jesus&rsquo;s humanity, but he is never satisfied with just our humanity. Satan touched on the reality of the moment &ndash; Jesus WAS hungry, and Satan was offering Jesus an opportunity to quench his physical hunger.</em> <em>Temptation won&rsquo;t stop at your humanity</em>.<em> He will come after everything. </em></li></ul><br /><strong><em>Remember the temptation is deceitful, it won&rsquo;t stop.</em></strong><ul><li>Satan&rsquo;s second temptation was to get Jesus to question his belief, specifically what he believed about WHOSE he was. &ndash; <em>Even before his wilderness prayer retreat, Jesus had just heard God &ndash; his father &ndash; say &ldquo;this is my son in whom I&rsquo;m well pleased.&rdquo; Satan is now testing Jesus&rsquo;s trust in God &ndash; his father. Will God save you? Will He send down angels on your behalf? Satan&rsquo;s temptation is actually less about what Jesus will do, and more about what he believes. This is how temptation is deceitful. Satan doesn&rsquo;t care about what you do, He can&rsquo;t actually overcome your doing</em> &ndash;<em> unless you&rsquo;re demonically </em>possessed <em>the excuse &ldquo;Satan made me do it&rdquo; will NEVER stand trial. You are not controlled by Satan &hellip;.or God. You are a free-willed being, making decisions based upon your own beliefs. What Satan is after is your beliefs &ndash; your thoughts &ndash; which is why we are &ldquo;take hold of every thought&rdquo; (2 Corinthians 10:5). Satan is trying to rewrite the truth Jesus knows about himself &ndash; he is his father&rsquo;s son. Never before has a possessive apostrophe been more significant.</em> <em>And since Jesus KNOWS this and is secure in this he is able to overcome the doubt the enemy tries to cause him to wrestle with.  </em></li></ul><br /><strong><em>Remember the enemy wants your beliefs, not just your actions. </em></strong><br /><em>One of my favorite quotes is, &ldquo;Every action is born out of a belief.&rdquo; Hold tight to your beliefs. </em><ul><li>Satan&rsquo;s third temptation dealt with the promise over Jesus&rsquo;s life. &ndash; <em>The enemy knows the greatness in you and the promises for you. God is a good father &ndash; Luke 11:13. He has great things in store for your life. The enemy knows that because you are His, your potential to make an impact in the world is unparalleled</em>. <em>You are unstoppable when your life is fully surrendered to the Lord. You don&rsquo;t have to settle in life</em>, <em>because God&rsquo;s plan for your life is not pathed with just what you can see. Satan said to Jesus all that you can see I&rsquo;ll give you, but because Jesus knew that what God had for him was greater than what he could see at that moment, Satan&rsquo;s offer was foolishness. </em></li></ul> <strong><em>Remember you have a promise over your life, don&rsquo;t sell it short for what you see today.</em></strong><br /><br />Paul finishes the passage in Hebrews 4 stating that in the midst of our struggle with temptation we are to &ldquo;draw near&rdquo; to the throne room. Drawing near seems so anti what we are supposed to do. It wasn&rsquo;t what Adam and Eve did when they fell to the temptation of the enemy. Remember? They both eat of the fruit they weren&rsquo;t supposed to and God enters the garden, as he so often did, and they were hiding. Isn&rsquo;t that what the enemy wants us to do when we fall? Run and hide. Run away from the one who can forgive us. Hide from the one who makes us pure again. The enemy of our soul is entirely more deceitful than we know. <br /><br />Jesus says come. The Holy Spirit says come. The Father says come &ndash; draw near to my throne room where there is an abundance of grace and mercy for you. <br /><br />So today, I encourage you to overcome the temptations in your life&hellip;..draw near and receive before the throne of grace and mercy.<br /><br />&#8203;<br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">About the Author<br /><strong>&#8203;j. Taylor Choate<br /><br />&#8203;</strong><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">J. Taylor Choate is a gifted communicator with a passion for the Lord and His Church. He has earned his Bachelor of Arts in Church Leadership with a minor in Church Revitalization and Planting from Southwestern Assemblies of God University (SAGU), and is currently completing a Master of Arts in Organizational Leadership from SAGU. He shares his life with his wife Morgan and their daughter Matilda. Taylor serves as Treasurer of Refining Fire Ministries, and Bridge Community Church as the Associate Pastor.<br />&#8203;</span><br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; margin: 0px auto 1em; padding: 0px; border: 0px; font-size: 1.25em; letter-spacing: -0.025em;"><font size="6"><strong>Did you enjoy this inspirational article from RFM?</strong><br />Join our email list and have the best content delivered!</font></span></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.lpage.co/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Subscribe</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><span><font size="6"><strong>Thank you for your support!</strong><br />Refining Fire Ministry could not exist without your continual financial support. If you are not currently a supporter, please prayerfully consider the seed that you can sow toward our vision for the future. </font></span></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-normal" href="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/give.html" > <span class="wsite-button-inner">Give</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teach Me How to Pray]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/teach-me-how-to-pray]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/teach-me-how-to-pray#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 06 Feb 2020 22:27:09 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Prayer]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/teach-me-how-to-pray</guid><description><![CDATA[       Prayer has been a significant part of my life for as long as I can remember. Whether it was prayer before bed or a church-wide prayer event, I was consistently experiencing some type of prayer. As I grew up, the expression, "I'll need to pray about that," or "take it to prayer," became common usage in my communication. But, what does that really mean? I find that as I mature in my faith, I often ask the same thing of Jesus as disciples in Luke 11:1, "teach me to pray."       I find it int [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p148.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial; background-color: transparent; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-position: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Prayer has been a significant part of my life for as long as I can remember. Whether it was prayer before bed or a church-wide prayer event, I was consistently experiencing some type of prayer. As I grew up, the expression, "I'll need to pray about that," or "take it to prayer," became common usage in my communication. But, what does that really mean? I find that as I mature in my faith, I often ask the same thing of Jesus as disciples in Luke 11:1, "teach me to pray." </span><br /><span></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">I find it interesting that the response that Jesus gives (The Lord's Prayer), has become a trite and repetitious recitation that we often quote in a low monotonous buzz; commonly chanted from the King James Version with words we barely understand. My spirit is grieved when I think on this, because there is nothing about this prayer that should be limited to platitude! Packed into this stanza lies the format that God Himself has given to us in response to the request, "teach us how to pray." For me, this reality is telling of our lukewarm tendencies when approaching the topic of prayer. Each line is filled with heavenly wisdom when approaching the throne of God:<br /><br /><em><strong>Our Father...</strong></em><br /><br />Incredibly, Christ instructs us to address God in this way. No, this was not the first time that God is referenced as Father in the Bible, but it is significant in how it is used to introduce this topic. We often approach God for his infinite wisdom or unquenchable power. Or maybe we throw ourselves at the mercy of a righteous judge. But how often do we approach God as our Father? I think of the parable of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15:11-32. In this story, the Father not only receives the son, but he also runs toward the son. How would it impact our approach to prayer if we saw God as running toward us instead of waiting for us to come to Him? It is interesting to me that Jesus is recorded to have shared this story only a few chapters after his teaching on prayer.<br /><br /><strong><em>...hallowed be Your name.</em></strong><br /><br />On the extreme opposite, we may experience those who have no problem believing that God desires to answer our prayers. Many seem to treat prayer as a kind of wishing well that produces prosperity and blessing at our whim. While I believe that God desires to bless us, I have a difficult time accepting the relationship that this seems to convey. God is our Father, not a genie in a bottle. At times, we seem to forget that He is, the all-knowing one and we are the ones limited by our finite wisdom. What is more, how often does our own depraved nature motivate our prayers? If we were to receive all that we have ever asked for, we would not be spoiled brats rather than mature sons ad daughters? C.S. Lewis said it best, "We want not so much a Father but a grandfather in Heaven, a God who said of anything we happened to like doing, 'What does it matter so long as they are contented? That's not to say that God purposely withholds from us, as though to tease us. But instead that He is Holy, and what he desires for us is Holy. So what does this teach us about prayer? Instead of coming to God with our long list of "wants," what if we came to Him and allowed Him to tell us what to pray?<br /><br /><em><strong>Your Kingdom come, your will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven</strong></em><br /><br />I, like many other believers, have wrongfully understood this statement as a safety net against praying the wrong thing. When given two options, I have often prayed for the one that I wanted, but followed up with, "but your will, not mine." In all honesty, what I was saying was, "I want this, but in case I would actually want that, make sure I get what I really want." Now, of all the things that one can do, this is certainly not the worst, but it misses the power abiding in this part of the prayer. Here, Christ is commanding us to release the activity of Heaven into the Earth. In an earlier article, I demonstrate how earthly dominion has been given to mankind through the creation and restored at the resurrection. With this being said, God has chosen to partner with us as we pray. As He said to Peter, "what you loose on Earth will be loosed in Heaven" (Matthew 18:18). Prayer is how we agree with the Will of God and prepare its way. Rarely will you find a believer who disagrees that prayer is essential, but are we equally convinced that a lack of prayer is detrimental? <br /><br /><strong><em>Give us this day our daily bread...</em></strong><br /><br />When I read this portion of the prayer, I am immediately reminded of Exodus 16. In the wilderness, God provided the Israelites with "bread from Heaven" Each day, this mama would fall from the sky, and the people would go out and collect it. God's specific instruction was, "the people shall go out and gather a day's portion every day&hellip;" They did not receive enough bread for a week's worth, or even for the next day. They specifically collected enough for the day that it was collected. Consider for a moment the level of faith that would be required to be obedient to this direction. Every day when they consumed the last of their ration, they had nothing left for the next day. All they could do was trust that tomorrow God would once again be faithful. The verse goes on to say, "...that I may test them whether or not they will walk in My instruction." The entire operation was a training process to teach the Israelites to trust in Him. The wilderness theme resurfaces again and again throughout Scripture, coupled with the theme of God providing for the faithful. The significance of this being found in Christ's teaching on prayer is far larger than can be addressed in the scope of this article. But, we should realize that prayer is intended to lead us into a deeper place of faith and trust in His faithfulness. If our prayers don't scare us, they might not be what God is asking us to pray. <br /><br /><strong><em>Forgive our sins, for we also forgive those who are indebted to us.</em></strong><br /><br />I have always found it interesting how these two concepts are seemingly fused. Of course, what comes to my mind is Jesus parable in Matthew 18 - the unmerciful servant. If you're unfamiliar with the story, a servant, who owed an astronomical amount, was taken to the king for trial. The servant pleaded with the king and the king was merciful. As the servant went out, he found someone who owed him money and demanded he pay immediately. When the king found out, he had the servant placed in prison until he could pay back the debt that had been previously forgiven. This is a very interesting parable and when taken literally, the message is hard-hitting. It would seem that God is saying that we will be forgiven to the measure that we forgive others. Christ does say this very clearly in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions." It can't be put more clearly than that. But, what does this have to do with prayer? Mark 11:25 says, "Whenever you stand praying, forgive if you have anything against anyone so that your Father, who is in heaven will also forgive you your transgressions." Prayer not only facilitated communication with our Heavenly Father, but it also fosters community with our fellow believers. Effective prayers are prayed in humanity. One of the surest ways for pride to abide in our lives is for us to harbor unforgiveness toward one another. <br /><br /><strong><em>Do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.</em></strong> <br /><br />There are many different directions that I could take in expositing this particular passage of the prayer, but I will choose to take the road less traveled. Prayer is dangerous business. This is true for many reasons. In this case, I mean that leaning into the activity of prayer can often result in twisted theology and deception. When we begin to listen to the Spirit, we must realize that the voice of the Holy Spirit is not the only voice we can hear. We also have a real and true enemy who would desire nothing else but to distort the Truth. Take, for example, Jesus temptation in Matthew 4. In this case, Satan quoted Scripture in an attempt to convince Jesus to bow to him. That being said, it is not beyond Satan's ability to take something good and use it as a weapon of deception. So how then do we combat this? Fortunately, Jesus shows us the answer. When Satan attempted to twist the Truth, Jesus used discernment and revealed the lies and half-truth that Satan was presenting. We must have such a grasp on the Word of God that we can defend its Truth!<br /><br />Much can be said, and many pages could be written on the deep and powerful lessons abiding in Christ's very instruction on prayer. I invite you to take some time and meditate on the Lord's prayer. It is so much more than cross-stitching across a decorative pillow!</div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)">About the Author</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)">Devin Peterson, B.Th., M.Div.</strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)">&#8203;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Devin Peterson is a passionate writer with a heart for prayer and intercession. He has earned his Bachelor of Theology(B.Th.) from West Coast Bible College and Seminary and his Master of Divinity (M.Div.) with an emphasis in Biblical Languages from Luther Rice College and Seminary. As the youngest son of Kevin Peterson (the founder of RFM) he has been a part of the ministry his entire life. Currently, he serves as President and Chairman of RFM. Devin lives in Mansfield, Texas with his wife Ashley.</span></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="6"><strong>Did you enjoy this inspirational article from RFM?</strong><br />Join our email list and have the best content delivered!</font></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.lpage.co/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Subscribe</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="6"><strong style="">Thank you for your support!</strong><br />Refining Fire Ministry could not exist without your continual financial support. If you are not currently a supporter, please prayerfully consider the seen that you can sow toward our vision for the future.&nbsp;</font></h2>  <div id="820283029785361376"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292 a {  color: #137ec8;}#element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292 iframe.donorbox-widget {  width: 100%;  height: 685px;}#element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292 .instructions-pane {  padding: 10px;}#element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292 .instructions-pane h3 {  margin-bottom: 20px;}#element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292 .instructions-content ol {  padding: 0 20px;  font-size: 12px;  line-height: 20px;}#element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292 .instructions-content ol li {  list-style: inherit;}#element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292 .instructions-content ol li a {  font-weight: bold;}</style><div id="element-a08fb39d-3d12-43be-abb3-fe985fad9292" data-platform-element-id="699576147499752502-1.0.0" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class='donorbox-widget-container'></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Fruitful Frustrations]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/fruitful-frustrations]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/fruitful-frustrations#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/fruitful-frustrations</guid><description><![CDATA[       For many years I have read and reread the stimulating sermons of J Wallace Hamilton. He was the dearly loved pastor of Community Church in Pasadena, Florida. He was called there in 1932 and long before the term &ldquo;mega-churches&rdquo; was common-place in America, he pastored one.&nbsp;&#8203;Ushers counted 3,450 cars one Sunday with families sitting in them and listening to messages from amplifiers on posts and in the trees to this instinctive, brilliant, present tense truth teller. T [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p145_1.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">For many years I have read and reread the stimulating sermons of J Wallace Hamilton. He was the dearly loved pastor of Community Church in Pasadena, Florida. He was called there in 1932 and long before the term &ldquo;mega-churches&rdquo; was common-place in America, he pastored one.&nbsp;&#8203;Ushers counted 3,450 cars one Sunday with families sitting in them and listening to messages from amplifiers on posts and in the trees to this instinctive, brilliant, present tense truth teller. The building held about 1,500, but over 8,000 of his members never came inside.</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph">The powerful, fascinating, thought provoking truth got into their hungry hearts though. Recently, I was re-reading one of his books titled, <u>Ride the Wild Horses</u>. It is from a series of messages preached from the proposition that all of our God-given energies are meant for creative, constructive and eternal spiritual use.<br /><br />As I read the message titled, <strong>Fruitful Frustrations</strong>, many pastoral and personal thoughts came to my mind. I have lived in this meaningful message before, maybe all of us have. So, I just felt prompted to share a little of it with you.<br /><br /><em>&ldquo;Paul wanted to go to Spain. He had his heart set on that. In his dream of Christian conquest, he had laid his plans for reaching the outermost rim of the world, to preach the good news of Christ. But he never got there.<br /><br />Instead he got a prison cell in Rome.<br /><br />A large majority of us have to settle for something less than what we want, and for many that is a major problem of life &ndash; to take a broken plan, a disappointment, a frustration, and make something out of it.<br /><br />The world has many philosophies, but no one answers back to this tragic element in life so persuasively and redemptively as Jesus. Christianity was born in the fires of failure and defeat; its symbol is a cross on which its Founder took the worst in the world and made it an instrument of redemption. And part of the many meanings of this cross and this faith lies in its teaching that all our frustrations, even the worst the world knows, may be made fruitful.<br /><br />Everyone has learned to some extent how to make frustrations fruitful by getting traction out of trouble. No one but a fool would pretend to understand the mystery of pain and no one but a liar would pretend to enjoy it, but certainly this is clear: that without pain there would be no progress, and without frustration no traction for our feet.<br /><br />All life makes progress in a resisting medium. The bird needs resistance of the air to fly; the fish needs the resistance of the water to get traction for his fins, and even the simple business of standing on our feet could not be accomplished without frustration &ndash; without resisting forces pushing against our action.<br /><br />Life&rsquo;s troubles are so disagreeable, the weight of them so heavy that we never give them credit for their help. I am sure that most of us, looking back, would admit that whatever we have achieved in character we have achieved through conflict; it has come to us through power hidden deep within us, so deep that we didn&rsquo;t know we had them, called out into action by the challenge of opposition and frustration. The weights of life keep us going.<br /><br />The cults of comfort are in error, and they have no worthy answer to trouble when they call us to dodge it by metaphysical gymnastics, or to think it away. The Omar Khayyam&rsquo;s are useless too, they have no answer but to suggest that we damn &lsquo;this sorry scheme of things&rsquo;, they want a world that is all pleasure and no pain. These light, easy answers are based on the false assumption that the goal of life is happiness, peace of mind and comfort. It isn&rsquo;t.<br /><br /><strong>Holiness, not happiness, is the goal of life.</strong> So, when God molds a man, He puts weights on him, gives him burdens to life, crosses to carry, hardships to endure, tribulations over which to triumph.&nbsp; All is a profound mystery, to be sure. A little boy wanted to know why vitamins are always put in spinach and never in ice cream, where they should be. Don&rsquo;t ask me why, but for some strange reason our sweetest songs come out of our saddest thoughts; the Negro spirituals are sad songs of a sad race, and they are the loveliest music in America. Arnold Toynbee, the historian, traced through history in his monumental study. In a chapter entitled &ldquo;The Stimulus of Blows,&rdquo; he shows how hardy civilization has come to birth in response to challenge: &ldquo;The greater the challenge, the greater the stimulus.&rdquo; Without weights, even civilization cannot keep going. A little boy was leading his sister up a mountain path. &ldquo;Why,&rdquo; she complained, &ldquo;it&rsquo;s not a path at all. It&rsquo;s all rocky and bumpy.&rdquo; &ldquo;Sure,&rdquo; he said, &ldquo;the bumps are what you climb on.&rdquo;</em><br /><br />Hamilton isn&rsquo;t just preaching pious platitudes from a paneled pulpit. He has walked through the bumpy, tangled jungles of life. He has had his share of scratches and patches, but he kept on going and I love how he comforts the afflicted and afflicts the comfortable.<br><br />&#8203;</div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph">About the Author<br /><strong style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)">R.J. Koland, M.Div.</strong><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">R.J. Koland is an experienced pastor and administrator. Having received education from the University of Minnesota and Bethel Theological Seminary, he was well equipped to lead six churches as well as support numerous other ministry endeavors. Currently, he pastors Central&rsquo;s Assembly Of God in Mesquite, Texas, as well as serving as the Director of Development for Newman International Academy, a charter school based out of Arlington, Texas. R.J. Has helped launch several successful institutions of higher education, as well as held multiple professorial and administrative roles in other various colleges.<br /><br />&#8203;</font></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5">&#8203;<strong>Did you enjoy this inspirational article from RFM?</strong><br />Join our email list to have the best content delivered.</font></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.privy.com/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">subscribe</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5"><strong>Thank you for your support!</strong><br />Refining Fire Ministry could not exist without your continual financial support. If you are not currently a supporter, please prayerfully consider the seed that you can sow toward our vision for the future.&nbsp;</font></h2>  <div id="893643075748139119"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2 a {  color: #137ec8;}#element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2 iframe.donorbox-widget {  width: 100%;  height: 685px;}#element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2 .instructions-pane {  padding: 10px;}#element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2 .instructions-pane h3 {  margin-bottom: 20px;}#element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2 .instructions-content ol {  padding: 0 20px;  font-size: 12px;  line-height: 20px;}#element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2 .instructions-content ol li {  list-style: inherit;}#element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2 .instructions-content ol li a {  font-weight: bold;}</style><div id="element-840b744a-2158-40d9-b574-2ed98492fbf2" data-platform-element-id="699576147499752502-1.0.0" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class='donorbox-widget-container'></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Approach]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/the-approach]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/the-approach#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2019 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/the-approach</guid><description><![CDATA[       Whether you like your job or not, the best part of working is coming home to your family. In this season of life my favorite part is coming home and seeing my daughter when I come in&hellip;the way her eyes light up. The way she screams DADDY!!!!! And runs to me and wrap her arms around my leg.       Do you still remember the first time your kids said &lsquo;mama&rsquo; or &lsquo;daddy?&rsquo; Daddy was the very first thing my daughter knew me by. She didn&rsquo;t know me as Andrew, or Ni [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p142_1.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#333333"><span>Whether you like your job or not, the best part of working is coming home to your family. In this season of life my favorite part is coming home and seeing my daughter when I come in&hellip;the way her eyes light up. The way she screams DADDY!!!!! And runs to me and wrap her arms around my leg. </span></font></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#333333"><span>Do you still remember the first time your kids said &lsquo;mama&rsquo; or &lsquo;daddy?&rsquo; Daddy was the very first thing my daughter knew me by. <span style="font-weight:700">She didn&rsquo;t know me as Andrew, or Nikki&rsquo;s husband, or bill payer, or toy buyer, or pastor.</span> She knew me as daddy. </span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span>It was our first relationship, and should always remain the foundation of how we relate to each other. She will be many things, but I will know her first as my baby girl. I have been many things, but Sophie, Lord willing, she&rsquo;ll call me daddy for as long as we live. As long as my relationship with her remains healthy, the way she approaches me we always be as her father. The way I approach her will always be as daughter. It&rsquo;s the first, and most important identity she received from me. </span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span>I want to use this post to discuss our identity as sons and daughter or God and I want us to discover how that primary identity affects the way we approach him in prayer. I believe two things affect your prayers more than anything else: what you think about yourself, and what you think about God. </span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span style="font-weight:700">YOU&rsquo;RE A SON FIRST</span><span style="font-weight:700"> </span></span></font><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">(Matt 3 &ndash; NIV)</font></span><br /><em><font color="#333333">13Then Jesus came from Galilee to the Jordan to be baptized by John. 14But John tried to deter him, saying, &ldquo;I need to be baptized by you, and do you come to me?&rdquo;&nbsp;</font><font color="#333333"><span><span>15Jesus replied, &ldquo;</span><span>Let it be so now; it is proper for us to do this to fulfill all righteousness.&rdquo; Then John consented.&nbsp;</span></span></font><font color="#333333">16As soon as Jesus was baptized, he went up out of the water. At that moment heaven was opened, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. 17And a voice from heaven said, &ldquo;This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.&rdquo;</font></em><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span>In this passage Jesus is making his entry onto the public ministry. He comes to John the Baptist to be baptized, and John declares who he is to everyone around. Upon being baptized and coming up from the Jordan we are told the Holy Spirit alighted on him like a dove and the voice of the Father said &lsquo;this is my beloved son, in whom I&rsquo;m well pleased.&rsquo; Many scholars believe this was an audible voice that everyone present heard! </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Now, I want you to consider <span>everything</span> that Jesus is in scripture. John had just called him the lamb, he is the Messiah, the King, the Christ, a prophet, Emmanuel God with us, the Lord, our Master, the Apostle John called him the Logos or the Word.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Yet, in this entry into public ministry God did not say &lsquo;this is my prophet, my chosen Messiah, the Christ, believe on him and you will have eternal life.&rsquo; </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>No.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>He said <span> </span>&lsquo;This is my beloved Son. I am well pleased with Him.&rsquo;</span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span style="font-weight:700">BEFORE WE SEE JESUS FUNCTIONING IN HIS CALL AS THE MESSIAH WE SEE HIM RECEIVING HIS IDENTITY AS A SON.</span> </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Before he is called healer, he&rsquo;s called son. Before he&rsquo;s called Rabbi, he&rsquo;s called son. Before anyone sang His praises, He receives the identity of a son.</span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span>It&rsquo;s also important for this reason. Before anyone called Him &lsquo;heretic&rsquo; He was called son. Before He was spit on, and chastised, and beaten and crucified He became rooted in His identity as a son. He understood it was THE primary way the Father saw him.</span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span style="font-weight:700">AND THAT IDENTITY IS WHAT MATTERED THE MOST TO HIM. </span><span style="font-weight:700">SONSHIP WAS THE IDENTITY HE LIVED FROM.</span></span></font><font color="#333333"><span>My family moved to Atlanta in January of 2015 to plant a church. Towards the end of 2016, three months before our public launch was scheduled, it began to just implode and I felt the Lord leading us to stop our planting efforts. </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>I remember a conversation I had with a &lsquo;big brother&rsquo; of mine in the faith, he pastors an amazing church in Smyrna called &lsquo;<a href="https://thesquare.org/" target="_blank">The Square</a>.&rsquo; I remember driving with him to some event and me sharing my hopes for our baby, pre-launch church and he stopped and looked at me and said something that exposed an area of my heart I didn&rsquo;t know existed.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>He said &lsquo;Andrew, even if your church crashes and burns, you&rsquo;re still a son. And that&rsquo;s enough.&rsquo; </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>I know the weight of our church not being planted doesn&rsquo;t all rest on my shoulders. There&rsquo;s a myriad of reasons it didn&rsquo;t work out, but I do know that one of those reasons is because I <span>knew</span> this in my <span>head</span>, but not in my <span>heart</span>. </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Let me rephrase, I knew I was a son, I didn&rsquo;t understand, in my heart, in the way I lived life and in the way I functioned in my calling, was that I was a son <span style="font-weight:700">BEFORE</span> I was anything else. I had a mental ascent to it, but practically, I wasn&rsquo;t living that reality. It didn&rsquo;t make it to the &lsquo;heart level&rsquo; that I was a son FIRST.</span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">YOU SEE, I HAD LET MY WORTH BECOME ATTACHED TO MY CALLING AS A PASTOR INSTEAD OF MY IDENTITY AS A SON. </font></span><br /><font color="#333333"><span>If you let your worth become attached to your calling, your value will grow or wane depending on your performance, you will only focus on the &lsquo;crap&rsquo; that is going on around you, and your eyes will be on the waves because they aren&rsquo;t on God.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700">You will live from your calling instead of your identity.</span> </span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span>It goes beyond calling though. That was my struggle. Some of us aren&rsquo;t living from our calling, we&rsquo;re living from your issues (addiction, depression). Or we&rsquo;re living from a lesser identity. You&rsquo;ve taken a lesser identity and made it your primary identity. (I&rsquo;m a businessman, I&rsquo;m a good mom). Or you&rsquo;re living even from your best qualities (I&rsquo;m an intellectual. I&rsquo;m a creative. I&rsquo;m an INTJ. Some of us are more familiar with our Myers-Briggs results than our sonship). What we have to wrap our minds around is this: God doesn&rsquo;t identity you by your issues, your calling, or your status. </span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">GOD IDENTIFIES YOU BY YOUR COVENANT, AND YOUR COVENANT SAYS YOU ARE SONS AND DAUGHTERS FIRST.</font></span><br /><font color="#333333"><span>What comes to mind when you think about yourself? Our goal needs to be renewing our minds till we get to this place of recognizing we are sons and daughters first. Last year when someone asked me what I was the first thing that came to my mind was &lsquo;church planter.&rsquo; I want to be in a place where the first thing that comes to mind is resting in my sonship. </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>It doesn&rsquo;t mean that when someone says &lsquo;hey what do you do for a living&rsquo; you&rsquo;re hyper spiritual Henry and lead with &lsquo;oh, I&rsquo;m a son of God friend, but I also work at such and such.&rsquo; That would be weird.</span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span style="font-weight:700">SONSHIP IS THE PLACE WE REST IN AND THE IDENTITY WE LIVE FROM AND THE POSTURE WE APPROACH GOD WITH. </span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span>If you begin to let your worth be attached to sonship you will become more emotionally consistent, more confident of who you are in God, and a by product is you will become more fruitful in prayer because you&rsquo;re approach is becoming aligned with who God says you are. </span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span style="font-weight:700">God will always seek to relate to us as sons and daughters first. It is important that we see ourselves as sons, but it&rsquo;s also important to see God as our Father. I know that sounds similar until we realize that </span><span style="font-weight:700">we let our <span>perceptions</span> of what a father is cloud our appreciation of who our heavenly Father is.</span><span style="font-weight:700"> </span></span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">OUR ADOPTION</font></span><br /><font color="#333333"><span>I firmly believe that we can think we are good sons and still not think rightly about God as Father because our understanding of the word is forced through the filter of what we believe a father is, or is tainted by our experiences and unmet expectations we have with our own fathers, or the lack thereof. </span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span>It&rsquo;s possible for you to think that you are a good son, but because of how you view the Father, you&rsquo;re never quite good enough. That&rsquo;s because of how you view the Father as present, but distant and cold and always disappointed. </span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span>It&rsquo;s natural for us to project our perceptions of a father onto God as we begin our walk with Him. God in grace is patient with our misconceptions and as we seek Him, He consistently helps us over time to see Him as an incomparably good, loving, trustworthy and perfect Father.</span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333"><span style="font-weight:inherit">SEEING GOD AS A GOOD FATHER IS A LEARNED BEHAVIOR</span>.</font></span><font color="#333333"><span>We step into this understanding by constantly letting the Lord renew our minds through teaching and by taking thoughts captive that are contrary to this truth. And in my experience, the learning curve varies depending on our experience with natural fathers and the age at which we got saved. Real talk: it&rsquo;s harder for some than others to wrap their minds around God as a good father and find peace with it. </span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">Romans 8.</font></span><br /><em><font color="#333333">14For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. 15The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship.&nbsp;</font></em><font color="#333333"><span><em><span>And by him we cry, &ldquo;Abba, Father.&rdquo; 16The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God&rsquo;s children. 17Now if we are children, then we are heirs&mdash;heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.</span></em><span> </span></span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span>This is why I say it is a learned behavior. We are adopted into God&rsquo;s family. Any child that is adopted has to learn their role, their place in this new family. It&rsquo;s by His Spirit that we can call God &lsquo;Father,&rsquo; that we have access to Him, but you have to learn to. Sophie has always known me as daddy. From the time she was born. Our son Jaxon had to learn that I am his father when he was adopted into our family just like I had to learn that God is father when I was adopted into His. </span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span style="font-weight:700">BECAUSE WE ARE ADOPTED WE HAVE TO LEARN TO VIEW GOD AS A GOOD FATHER.</span><span style="font-weight:700"> </span></span></font><font color="#333333"><span>ASK for revelation that only he can give you. That he really is a good father. Don&rsquo;t let an orphan spirit isolate you from this kind of pursuit. Consistency in our devotion to God helps us lean into this reality of sonship. </span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span style="font-weight:700">You can understand your identity as a son, but unless you bring it into alignment with God&rsquo;s identity as a good father you&rsquo;ll still be dysfunctional in how you relate to him. This right here is so important for prayer, because </span><span style="font-weight:700">how we see God is how we talk to God.</span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span>Jesus revolutionized our approach to prayer by getting us to see God as our Father. Jesus shows us, not just through what we are about to read, but through His life in the Gospels, this radically personal relationship with the Father. Because how we see God is how we talk to God. </span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">OUR APPROACH</font></span><br /><font color="#333333">Our Father in heaven,</font><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span>Hallowed be Your</span><span> </span><span>name.</span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span>Your kingdom come.</span><span> </span><span>Your will be done</span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span>On earth</span><span> </span><span>as it is in heaven.</span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span>Give us this day our</span><span> </span><span>daily bread.</span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span>And</span><span> </span><span>forgive us our debts,</span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333">As we forgive our debtors.</font><br /><font color="#333333">And do not lead us into temptation,</font><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span>But</span><span> </span><span>deliver us from the evil one.</span></span></font><br /><font color="#333333">For Yours is the kingdom and the </font><br /><font color="#333333"><span><span>power and the glory forever. Amen</span>.</span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span>In Matthew 3 we have what is traditionally called The Lord&rsquo;s Prayer. The Lord&rsquo;s prayer serves both a pattern for how we pray in our private devotion, but it also serves as a liturgical prayer that the church uses together and in private. It&rsquo;s clear from early church fathers that this was a prayer was recited consistently with earnest, sincere hearts but also the model from which personal prayer was made. </span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span>Now, I really want you to pay attention to the <span style="font-weight:700"><span style="font-weight:inherit">APPROACH</span></span> of Jesus. There are dozens of names Jesus could have chosen to use in this instance, he could have just called him God, but instead he chooses the word &lsquo;Abba.&rsquo; </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>What I need us to see today is that this is not calling God father in a generic, formal, proper sense. This word &lsquo;abba&rsquo; is what a child would call their father.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Think of your son or daughter crawling in your lap, and snuggling up to you. That&rsquo;s &lsquo;abba.&rsquo;&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>It&rsquo;s an affectionate, relational term. It connotes a tenderness and fondness within the relationship.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>And this level of affection and relationship is how Jesus is teaching his disciples to relate to God through prayer.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>The fact that he chose this as the foundation for his teaching on prayer tells us that this relationship is what prayer should flow from. Jesus is essentially saying this &lsquo;Fruitful prayer flows from this kind of approach. You&rsquo;re a son. God is your Father. Pray from that posture.&rsquo;</span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">So, we are sons first, we have been adopted by a good father, and a fruitful prayer life flows from this relationship coming together and being aligned. </font></span><br /><font color="#333333"><span>And what it looks like is this: &lsquo;Our &lsquo;<span style="font-weight:700">ABBA</span>&rsquo; in Heaven. Holy is your name. Your KINGDOM come. Your WILL be done. On earth as it is in heaven.&rsquo; </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Prayer that flows from sonship begins with a Kingdom focus. When we posture ourselves as sons in prayer it produces alignment with the heart of the Father. And the heart of the father, in broad terms, is heaven on earth. Our devotion to God everyday should look like this: &lsquo;God, what&rsquo;s on your heart today. Let it be on my heart as well.&rsquo;</span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">When our identity is misaligned so is our approach to the model presented in Lord&rsquo;s prayer. We flip flop the elements. When our hearts aren&rsquo;t aligned, instead of leading with &lsquo;your kingdom come&rsquo; we focus on forgive our sin and give us bread and get rid of our debts. </font></span><br /><font color="#333333"><span>And it&rsquo;s sad because Jesus said &lsquo;seek first the Kingdom and all these other things will be added to you.&rsquo; A kingdom focus gives grace and substance to everything else we pray about. ON earth as it is in heaven. No sin in heaven. No hunger in heaven.</span></font><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#333333">A GODWARD FOCUS CREATES FRUIT IN THE REST OF OUR LIVES.<br />&#8203;</font></span><font color="#333333"><span>An aligned heart understands &lsquo;its not about me.&rsquo; </span></font><font color="#333333"><span>An aligned heart is a pathway for the relational flow between the Father and His sons and daughters to see Heaven on Earth.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Prayer is simply communion. Communion with God that leads us to discover what God is saying and what God wants to do, and then to partner with Him to do it.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Some of us miss it because we miss the fact that we are sons and daughters first. Let&rsquo;s repent of finding worth in our calling, or justifying our dysfunction because of our issues. God identifies us as sons and daughters, first.&nbsp;</span></font><font color="#333333"><span>Some of us are miss it because we are viewing the Father through the lens of our own experience. Let&rsquo;s change the way we think about God, and let Him renew our minds. Lets invite God to begin to give us an accurate picture of the Father. That He is good and true. Some may need to forgive their earthly fathers and let go of bitterness and unforgiveness towards your them.</span></font><br /><br /><font color="#333333"><span>God the Father is for you, not against you. He has the best planned for you. He&rsquo;s not mad at you. He&rsquo;s not disappointed.</span></font></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)">About the Author</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)">Andrew Peters, M.A.</strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)">&#8203;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(29, 18, 4)">Andrew is a church leadership and creative type living in the Atlanta area with my awesome wife and two kiddos. After over a decade of pastoral ministry and traveling full time as a conference speaker he now works full time at The Reach Company helping ministries and businesses tell their story and and make their organizations better.&nbsp;He ministers with a prophetic edge and is passionate about creating community, building leaders, and empowering those around him to live as Spirit filled disciples of Jesus. He holds an M.A. in Theology and a B.A. in Pastoral Ministry from SAGU.<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5">&#8203;<strong>Did you enjoy this inspirational article from RFM?</strong><br />Join our email list to have the best content delivered.</font></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.privy.com/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">SubscriBe</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5"><strong>Thank you for your support!</strong><br />Refining Fire Ministry could not exist without your continual financial support. If you are not currently a supporter, please prayerfully consider the seed that you can sow toward our vision for the future.&nbsp;</font></h2>  <div id="104086296373621876"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee a {  color: #137ec8;}#element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee iframe.donorbox-widget {  width: 100%;  height: 685px;}#element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee .instructions-pane {  padding: 10px;}#element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee .instructions-pane h3 {  margin-bottom: 20px;}#element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee .instructions-content ol {  padding: 0 20px;  font-size: 12px;  line-height: 20px;}#element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee .instructions-content ol li {  list-style: inherit;}#element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee .instructions-content ol li a {  font-weight: bold;}</style><div id="element-7a16c9aa-eb7d-4886-87c7-c322fb3011ee" data-platform-element-id="699576147499752502-1.0.0" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class='donorbox-widget-container'></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Where's the Power?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/wheres-the-power]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/wheres-the-power#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 28 Mar 2019 14:30:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/wheres-the-power</guid><description><![CDATA[       I recently had a conversation with a friend of mine. Our discussion centered on the ordinance of communion. He explained, &ldquo;Sunday morning is the highlight of my week because it means that I can partake in communion.&rdquo; He went on to explain, &ldquo;this activity is so enriching because I feel in touch with Christ, at this moment, more purely than any other time throughout the week.&rdquo;      I was instantly taken back to a time in my teenage years when I was questioned about m [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p139.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">I recently had a conversation with a friend of mine. Our discussion centered on the ordinance of communion. He explained, &ldquo;Sunday morning is the highlight of my week because it means that I can partake in communion.&rdquo; He went on to explain, &ldquo;this activity is so enriching because I feel in touch with Christ, at this moment, more purely than any other time throughout the week.&rdquo;</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph">I was instantly taken back to a time in my teenage years when I was questioned about my denomination&rsquo;s decision not to offer communion weekly, but rather sporadically throughout the year. Being uninformed at the time, I didn&rsquo;t have a cogent response, nor did I fully understand the dynamics of this issue. Now, having gone through seminary, I understand the deeper dimensions of one theological persuasion over the other. There is the big split between those who practice transubstantiation (e.g., Catholics) and those who practice consubstantiation (e.g., Lutherans). But the debate stretches even further than this dichotomy. One group partakes weekly because of the belief that sanctification rests in the act of partaking, while another chooses to view it as a memorial and partakes sporadically to avoid this &ldquo;heretical sacramental view.&rdquo; It is not my goal to systematically outline the full range of conflicting views, but rather to address the reality that they exist. I have one question for any of these perspectives: where&rsquo;s the power?<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>Matthew 26:26-28</strong><br /><em>While they were eating, Jesus took some bread, and after a blessing, He broke it and gave it to the disciples, and said, &ldquo;Take, eat; this is My Body.&rdquo; And when He had taken a cup and given thanks, He gave it to them saying, &ldquo;Drink from it, all of you; for this is My blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.&rdquo;</em><br />&nbsp;<br />When Christ first offered the elements of communion to the disciples, it was a fresh illustration, untainted by years of repetitiveness. His command was for us to, &ldquo;do this in remembrance of me.&rdquo; The Apostle Paul explains this charge by stating, &ldquo;For as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord&rsquo;s death until he comes,&rdquo; in I Corinthians 11:26. But, what does it mean to &ldquo;proclaim His death?&rdquo; Are we merely announcing that he died, or is this something altogether more profound? I would argue for the latter. Jesus death was not ordinary; it was supernatural and redemptive &ndash; Christ died so that we wouldn&rsquo;t have to. But, it goes deeper still: Christ not only took what should have been ours, but He also gave what should have been His.<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>Ephesians 1:18-20</strong><br /><em>I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe. These are in accordance with the working of the strength of His might which He brought about in Christ when He raised Him from the dead and seated Him at His right hand in the heavenly place.</em><br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>Ephesians 2:4-7</strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /><em>But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), and raised us up with Him, and seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the ages to come He might show the surpassing riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.</em><br />&nbsp;<br />These verses demonstrate that Christ was exalted and blessed by the Father for His work on the cross. But, we were also raised up to sit next to Christ in His glory. When we proclaim the death of Christ, we are not telling a somber story of the day our Lord died, we are telling a joy-filled testimony of what we have received as a result! We proclaim this testimony by partaking in the communion that we have in Christ; by living into the richness of the blessings that have been bestowed upon us. Our profession of faith in the sufficiency of his death and our strongest show of gratitude is when we live our lives not as lowly reprobates begging for God&rsquo;s mercy, but has children of the Most High God, sitting at His right hand and enjoying the richness of His blessings.<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>So, how then should we observe communion?</strong><br />I will ask my question again, &ldquo;Where&rsquo;s the power?&rdquo; For me, the power isn&rsquo;t in the elements. I once had the opportunity to speak with a World War II veteran who later became a pastor. He explained, &ldquo;I risked my life for a flag. Not the strips of red, white, and blue fabric, but for what that fabric represented. This is how I see communion. When I take the elements, I am able to physically experience the illustration that Jesus used, but that illustration was intended to allude to something far beyond what can be grasped by our senses.&rdquo;<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>How often then should we observe communion?</strong><br />Once again, &ldquo;Where&rsquo;s the power?&rdquo; As my friend expressed, &ldquo;Sunday morning is the highlight of my week because it means that I can partake in communion. This activity is so enriching because I feel in touch with Christ, at this moment, more purely than any other time throughout the week.&rdquo; I have meditated on these words for such a long time, but I&rsquo;ve concluded that they grieve me. On September 4th of this year, my wife and I will celebrate four years of marriage. When this day comes, I will be fully reminded of the vow and commitment that we share. But, I pray that I not more aware of this reality just because I am taking the time to remember it. No, my marriage is a part of my life in such a way that the benefits and blessings of marriage are to be enjoyed and celebrated more throughout the year then they are on the one day that we take to express our appreciation. Why not so with our life in Christ? I don&rsquo;t think that it matters how often you partake in the ordinance of communion, whether methodically or sporadically. The importance lies in where you place the power &ndash; in the elements and the observance or in the one that we are remembering.<br />&nbsp;<br />So, may you walk in the richness of your heavenly blessing, not when you take the elements, but each and every day of your life.<br />&#8203;<br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph">About the Author<br /><strong>Devin Peterson, B.S., M.Div.</strong><br />&#8203;<br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Devin Peterson is a passionate writer with a heart for prayer and intercession. He has earned his Bachelor of Science in General Ministry from West Coast Bible College and Seminary and his Master of Divinity (M.Div.) with an emphasis in Biblical Languages from Luther Rice College and Seminary. As the youngest son of Kevin Peterson (the founder of RFM) he has been a part of the ministry his entire life. Currently, he serves as President and Chairman of RFM. Devin lives in Mansfield, Texas with his wife Ashley and their 3-year-old Yorkshire-poodle.<br /><br /></span></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><font size="6"><strong style="">Did you enjoy this inspirational article RFM?</strong><br />Join our email list and have the best content delivered!</font></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.privy.com/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Subscribe</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><strong>Thank you for your support!<br /></strong>Refining Fire Ministry could not exist without your continual financial support. If you are not currently a supporter, please prayerfully consider the seen that you can sow toward our vision for the future.&nbsp;<br /></h2>  <div id="665524760974815069"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee a {  color: #137ec8;}#element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee iframe.donorbox-widget {  width: 100%;  height: 685px;}#element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee .instructions-pane {  padding: 10px;}#element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee .instructions-pane h3 {  margin-bottom: 20px;}#element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee .instructions-content ol {  padding: 0 20px;  font-size: 12px;  line-height: 20px;}#element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee .instructions-content ol li {  list-style: inherit;}#element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee .instructions-content ol li a {  font-weight: bold;}</style><div id="element-6e8118eb-b301-497f-b2f8-2b70b32a20ee" data-platform-element-id="699576147499752502-1.0.0" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class='donorbox-widget-container'></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Our Giving God]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/our-giving-god]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/our-giving-god#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2019 20:30:59 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/our-giving-god</guid><description><![CDATA[       &#8203;Ever since The Message was published, I have been intrigued by Eugene H. Peterson and his writings. He insightfully shares about Jeremiah in his book&nbsp;Run with the Horses. Among the dramatic dialogues between Jeremiah and Jehovah,&nbsp;the LORD revealed that the divine purpose of Jeremiah&rsquo;s life was to be found in knowing that God &ldquo;gave&rdquo; him to the nations.      God is a giving God. He lavishes us with His grace. He loved the world so much that He gave his onl [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p136.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<span style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34)">Ever since The Message was published, I have been intrigued by Eugene H. Peterson and his writings. He insightfully shares about Jeremiah in his book&nbsp;Run with the Horses. Among the dramatic dialogues between Jeremiah and Jehovah,&nbsp;the LORD revealed that the divine purpose of Jeremiah&rsquo;s life was to be found in knowing that God &ldquo;gave&rdquo; him to the nations.</span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">God is a giving God. He lavishes us with His grace. He loved the world so much that He gave his only Son to be our Savior. His mercy is new every morning. One song writer penned, &ldquo;He giveth, and giveth and giveth again.&rdquo;<br />He made us that way too. This is where Peterson takes over the greater part of the rest of this.<br />&ldquo;Some things we have a choice in, some we don&rsquo;t. In this we don&rsquo;t. It is the kind of world into which we were born, God created it. God sustains it. Giving is the style of the universe. Giving is woven into the fabric of existence. If we try to live by getting instead of giving, we are going against the grain. It is like trying to go against the law of gravity - the consequence is bruises and broken bones.&nbsp;In fact, we do see a lot of distorted, misshapen, crippled lives among those who defy the reality that all life is given and must continue to be given to be true to its nature.<br />There is a rocky cliff on the shoreline of the Montana lake where I live part of each summer. There are breaks in the rockface in which tree swallows make their nests. For several weeks one summer, I watched the swallows in flight collect insects barely above the surface of the water then dive into the cavities in the cliff, feeding first their mates and then their newly hatched chicks.&nbsp;Near one of the cracks in the cliff face, a dead branch stretched about four feet over the water. One day I was delighted&nbsp;to see three new swallows sitting side by side on this branch. The parents made sweeping, insect-gathering circuits&nbsp;over the water and then returned to the enormous cavities that those little birds became as they opened their beaks for a feeding.&nbsp;This went on for a couple of hours until the parents decided they had had enough of it. One adult swallow got alongside the chicks and started shoving them out toward the end of the&nbsp;branch&nbsp;&ndash; pushing, pushing, pushing. The end one fell off. Somewhere between the branch and the water four feet below, the wings started&nbsp;working, and&nbsp;the fledgling was off on his own. Then the second one. The third was not to be bullied. At the last possible moment his grip on the branch loosened just enough so that he swung downward, then tightened again, bulldog tenacious. The parent was without sentiment. He pecked at the desperately clinging talons until it was more painful for the poor chick to hang on than risk the insecurities of flying. The grip was released and the inexperienced wings began pumping. The mature swallow knew what the chick did not &ndash; that it would fly &ndash; that there was no danger in making it do what it was perfectly designed to do.&rdquo;<br />Giving is what fulfills us.&nbsp;It is our purpose. It is our satisfaction. It is service, quality time, thoughtful assistance, financial contributions,&nbsp;and&nbsp;attentive listening.&nbsp;It is becoming genuinely&nbsp;interested in and&nbsp;caring toward others.&nbsp;Make it a daily habit.Review your day before you drift off to sleep and pray for those to whom you gave during the day.&nbsp;Then get up tomorrow and give again&nbsp;until it feels right.</font></div>  <div><div style="height: 30px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph">About the Author<br /><strong>R.J. Koland, M.Div.</strong><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">R.J. Koland is an experienced pastor and administrator. Having received education from the University of Minnesota and Bethel Theological Seminary, he was well equipped to lead six churches as well as support numerous other ministry endeavors. Currently, he pastors Central&rsquo;s Assembly Of God in Mesquite, Texas, as well as serving as the Director of Development for Newman International Academy, a charter school based out of Arlington, Texas. R.J. Has helped launch several successful institutes of higher education, as well as held multiple professorial and administrative roles in various colleges</font><br /><br /><strong>&#8203;</strong></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><strong>Did you enjoy this inspirational article from RFM?</strong><br />Join our email list to have the best content delivered</h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.privy.com/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Subscribe</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 30px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><strong>Thank you for your support!</strong><br />Refining Fire Ministry could not exist without your continual financial support. 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This is a place where we are completely accepted, where there is total disclosure, and where we joyfully and in total release, lose ourselves in  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p133.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><font color="#333333">     I rarely hear leaders talk about it these days, but I am convinced that nothing is more important to the health and success of the believer&rsquo;s experience than making room for the &ldquo;Secret Place.&rdquo; I define the Secret Place in this way.</font></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">&ldquo;</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Th</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">e Secret Place is a</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> place of total abandonment to our loving heavenly Father. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">This is a </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">place</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> where we are completely accepted, where there is total disclosure, and where we joyfully and in total release, lose ourselves in worship, praise and adoration. Ou</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">r regular experience in this Secret Place will move us in the direction of being ever more yielded and obedient to the perfect will of our Father God.&rdquo;</span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#333333"> </font></span><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">My Secret Place is probably different than yours. My Secret Place is on an athletic track one quarter o</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">f a mile in circumference. I make my way to this track every day</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">. I change into my jogging </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">shoes and</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">walk around this track six times. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">W</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">hen I</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">&rsquo;</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">m not traveling, </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I walk every day in my Secret Place, I leave my cell phone in the car. This is a place for no interruptions</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">; a time reserved exclusively for my heavenly Father. </span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I have been coming to my Secret Place now for more than t</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">hree</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">years. It is my favorite time of the day. I </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">look forward to the end of my workday</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">, so that I can be there completely alone with my Father. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">It is my time to express to Him everything that is on my heart. I resonate with the Psalm of David, when he says, &ldquo;Trust in Him at all times, O people, </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px; font-weight: bold;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">pour out your heart before Him</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">; God is a refuge for us.&rdquo; (Psalms 62:8-NASV) </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I hold back nothing. This is</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> not a time for pretension. Our Father is not fooled. He knows us completely. He knows us better than we know ourselves. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Doesn&rsquo;t Jesus remind us</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">?</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">"Are not two sparrows sold for a cent? And yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father.</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So do not fear; you are more valuable than many sparrows.&rdquo; </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">(Matthew 10:29-31)</span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Our Father made us in His own image as personal beings, in order to have a personal relationship with us and engage in personal</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">communication. He gave the gift of His Son that we might be restored to the intimate relationship with Him for which we were created. As we come to Him through </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">the </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">doorway of His Son Jesus, our human spirits immediately respond </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">to the compassionate </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">presen</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">ce</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> of our Father who has never ceased to love us. Our spirit</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">cries</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> out, &ldquo;Abba Father!&rdquo; Abba Father is the most intimate expression of love from a child to his father. It means, &ldquo;Dear Daddy!&rdquo; </span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">When I spend time in my Secret Place, I am coming home to be wit</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">h my Daddy. He made me in His image, and He sent His Divine Son to take my human nature, so He knows precisely how I think and how I feel. He is not a remote and an unfeeling God. He is my Abba Father! My tendency is to be independent, and to take control </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">of everything that happens in my life. My burdens become heavy: sometimes too heavy to bear. When I come to my Secret Place, my Father is always reminding me of my childlike and dependent nature. He reminds me that He is my Father, and it is His role </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">to ca</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">re for me by relieving me of my burdens and releasing me to take a rest. As I release to Him my burdens and cares, and abandon myself to a dependant state of worship, praise and adoration, I find that I&rsquo;m being transformed. I enter into a state of rest, pe</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">ace and total refreshment.</span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I believe that every believer passes through different seasons in their Christian experience. I went through a season of great difficulty in the fall of 2006. I felt that my life was being lived on a treadmill, just going through</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> the motions but getting nowhere. I knew that God had dreams and purposes for me that were not being realized. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I could envision myself fulfilling those purposes, but nothing in my current experience seemed to be getting me any closer to making that happen.</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> And I couldn&rsquo;t see </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">anything o</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">n the horizon that </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">promised any hope for change.</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> I felt trapped. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I felt immobilized by life&rsquo;s routine and endless responsibilities.</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> When I made the effort to move toward</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">s</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> change, it resulted in futility and frustration. </span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I don</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">&rsquo;t know how I could have survived that season were it not for my Secret Place. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">During those months, I certainly did not have </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">great revelations or </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">sudden divine interventions</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> as I walked around that track every day. Most days, I felt nothing but helplessnes</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">s. All I could manage was a great big shout of &ldquo;HELP!&rdquo; &ldquo;Please, Father, HELP ME!&rdquo; But I just continued to come to Him, letting him know that I was there for Him and expressing my neediness. It didn&rsquo;t happen overnight, but little by little, He began to brin</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">g me out of my sense of entrapment. My circumstances didn&rsquo;t change, but I began </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">to release to Him my high </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">expectations and</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> began to discover moments of joy in simple things. I became able to accept seemingly small occurrences as sacred encounters, arranged</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> by my heavenly Father. I found joyfulness restored to my daily life. </span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Again, the Psalmist David has the words that describe my experience. &ldquo;For in the day of trouble He will conceal me in His tabernacle; In the </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px; font-weight: bold;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">secret place</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> of His tent He will hide me; He</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> will lift me up on a rock. And now my head will be lifted up above my enemies around me, and I will offer in His tent sacrifices with shouts of joy; I will sing, yes, I will sing praises to the Lord.&rdquo; (Psalms 27:5-6)</span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">I recommend that you find a Secret </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Pla</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">ce and</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> go there regularly. Allow nothing in your life to keep you away. We all have urgent matters that demand our attention. But, believe me, nothing in your life is more urgent than having a Secret Place with your heaven</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">ly</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Father, where He can draw you t</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">o Himself and steady your life in the center of His will. </span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Many Christians in today&rsquo;s world </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">are unsure about</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> how to pray. Remember that prayer is simply communication with your Father in heaven. Although unseen, your Father is more real than the air that y</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">ou breathe. He yearns to have you depend upon Him enough to </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">make the effort to express</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> to Him everything that you are thinking and feeling. Believe me, although you don&rsquo;t see Him, </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">you will come to the awareness that </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">He hears everything that you utter and u</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">nderstand</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">s</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> your innermost feelings. </span></span></span></font><br /><span></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">Our Lord</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> made it clear to us that we need a Secret Place where </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">we can engage in prayer</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">. Hear what Jesus is saying! &ldquo;But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secr</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">et, and your Father who </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px; font-weight: bold;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">sees what is done in secret</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> will reward you.&rdquo; (Matthew 6:6) Delay no longer. </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">You have an appointment today with your heavenly Father! He will be waiting there </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">to meet </span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;">you in the</span></span><span style="line-height: 13.199999809265137px;"><span style="line-height: 19.799999237060547px;"> Secret Place!</span></span></span></font><br /><span></span></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">About the Author<br /><strong>David Dorries, Ph.D</strong></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><font color="#333333">Dr. Dorries is Director of Kairos Ministries International. He earned his Ph.D. in Church History at the University of Aberdeen in Scotland (1988). For 22 years he was Professor of Church History and Theological Librarian at Oral Roberts University in Tulsa, Oklahoma. David is an ordained minister, and has pastored churches in Texas, Oklahoma, New Mexico and Massachusetts. He is the author of five books and </font></span><span><font color="#333333">accepts speaking engagements and can be booked as long as dates on his calendar remain available.<br /><br />&#8203;</font></span><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: normal; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">ddorries@gmail.com<br />(918) 607-3749</span></font></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><strong>Did you enjoy this inspirational article from RFM?</strong><br /><font size="5">Join our email list to have the best content delivered to your inbox!</font><br /></h2>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://promotions.privy.com/campaigns/435141" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Subscribe</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><strong>Thank you for your support!</strong><br /><font size="4">Refining Fire Ministry could not exist without your continued financial support. <br />If you are not currently a supporter, please prayerfully consider the seed that you can sow toward our vision for the future.</font></h2>  <div id="913560791223345751"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd a {  color: #137ec8;}#element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd iframe.donorbox-widget {  width: 100%;  height: 685px;}#element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd .instructions-pane {  padding: 10px;}#element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd .instructions-pane h3 {  margin-bottom: 20px;}#element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd .instructions-content ol {  padding: 0 20px;  font-size: 12px;  line-height: 20px;}#element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd .instructions-content ol li {  list-style: inherit;}#element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd .instructions-content ol li a {  font-weight: bold;}</style><div id="element-47687145-e4d5-4710-8ab7-72f8ceb59bdd" data-platform-element-id="699576147499752502-1.0.0" class="platform-element-contents">	<div class='donorbox-widget-container'></div></div><div style="clear:both;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Religion vs. Carnality]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/january-31st-2019]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/january-31st-2019#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 22:18:16 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Kevin Peterson]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/january-31st-2019</guid><description><![CDATA[       Politically Correct=Pleasing a standard that was developed by a society. People of the society voluntarily accept a standard that has been placed upon them. It is an unofficial declaration. It is not based on an official absolute, therefore, it is subject to change according to the convenience and pleasures of that particular society      Religion of itself does nothing to change a society. It is not much more than a belief system that regulates its members by the standard of rules interp [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p130.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Politically Correct=Pleasing a standard that was developed by a society. People of the society voluntarily accept a standard that has been placed upon them. It is an unofficial declaration. It is not based on an official absolute, therefore, it is subject to change according to the convenience and pleasures of that particular society</span></font><br /><span></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Religion<font color="#333333"> of itself does nothing to change a society. It is not much more than a belief system that regulates its members by the standard of rules interpreted by the members themselves. For the most part it is a moral group that is clean in its lifestyle, but large in its judgement. Thus, allowing a judgmental attitude to be unattractive to those they intend to reach. The religion group in in contrast to political correctness, but does not have the power to make change...The result is two opposed groups in one society. Both claim to bring hope to people's lives, but creates such a stintch in its self righteousness that it is difficult to see the difference. Carnality tends to create a definition that makes sin seem acceptable. Carnal is the word that is used to excuse sin for weakness or convenience It compromises absolute standards to benefit results. In the political correctness & carnality are both in contrast with true Christ-likeness.This is not to say that Christians don't stumble and fail at times but, stumbling and failing are admitted, not justified. I Jn. 1:5-10; I Jn. 3:4-10; I John 2:1-2</font><br /><br /><em>This article was found in a prayer journal of Dr. Peterson&rsquo;s. The excerpt was dated May, 21st 2017.</em></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;">About the Author<br />kevin Peterson, D.Min<br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Kevin Peterson was founder of Refining Fire Ministry, and President from 1996-2013. Although he has gone on to be with the Lord, his voice and legacy live on in his writings. A graduate of Central Bible College in Springfield, Missouri (now a part of Evangel University), Kevin also received an honorary Doctor of Ministry from West Coast Bible College and Seminary. </div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Your Authority in Christ]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/your-authority-in-jesus-christ]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/your-authority-in-jesus-christ#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2018 20:08:20 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.refiningfireministry.com/fire-fuel/your-authority-in-jesus-christ</guid><description><![CDATA[       &#8203;In Mark chapter five, Jesus confronts a demon who makes the statement &ldquo;What business do we have with each other, Jesus, Son of the Most High.&rdquo; This is another way of saying, &ldquo;What do we have in common?&rdquo; Similar expressions can be found in the Old Testament (e.g. 2 Samuel 16:10;19:22), where they mean&rsquo; &ldquo;Mind your own business!&rdquo; The demon goes on to say &ldquo;I implore you before God, do not torment me! The demon sensed that he was to be pun [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.refiningfireministry.com/uploads/6/4/9/5/6495937/p118.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">&#8203;In Mark chapter five, Jesus confronts a demon who makes the statement &ldquo;What business do we have with each other, Jesus, Son of the Most High.&rdquo; This is another way of saying, &ldquo;What do we have in common?&rdquo; Similar expressions can be found in the Old Testament (e.g. 2 Samuel 16:10;19:22), where they mean&rsquo; &ldquo;Mind your own business!&rdquo; The demon goes on to say &ldquo;I implore you before God, do not torment me! The demon sensed that he was to be punished and used the most&nbsp;substantial basis for an oath that he knew, though his appeal to God was strangely ironic.&nbsp;&#8203;</font></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">There are three things that I want to point out here:</font><ul><li><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">The demon <em>recognized</em> Jesus&rsquo; identity</font></strong></li><li><strong><font color="#2a2a2a">The demon <em>recognized</em> Jesus&rsquo; power</font></strong></li><li><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong>The demon <em>questioned&nbsp;</em>His authority</strong></font></li></ul><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">In fact, the demon holds Jesus to the highest authority that he knows: God in heaven. But why?<br /><br />As we flip through the pages of the Old Testament, we&rsquo;ll notice that while God is obviously in charge of the universe, He is not necessarily in control. Psalm 115:16 says, &ldquo;The heavens are the heavens of the Lord, but the earth he has given to the sons of man.&rdquo; In the garden of Eden, authority and dominion on earth were given to man. Man, in turn, traded his birthright for the &ldquo;cravings of his stomach&rdquo; (a transaction that can be better understood through the symbolism in Genesis 25 with Jacob and Esau).<br /><br />All that to say, dominion and authority on earth were in the hands of the evil one and his minions. This turf war can be seen in Daniel 10 when the Angel of the Lord is held up by the Prince of Persia, and Micheal the Archangel has to come and help. Based on the context of the Scripture, the &ldquo;Prince of Persia&rdquo; is clearly a reference to a demonic spiritual principality that ruled over the area from which Daniel was praying. Note that It required two angles to power passed this demonic stronghold. Now, Jesus, &ldquo;Son of the Most High God&rdquo; stands before this demon, and the demon says, &ldquo;Mind your own business!&rdquo; The demon thought it was business as usual and was confused by why God was suddenly changing the deal and encroaching on his territory. After all, isn&rsquo;t God faithful to His word? This is why he challenges Jesus presence against the very Word of God!<br /><br />But, what the demon didn&rsquo;t realize is that God had exposed a loop-hole. As Psalm 115: 16 states &ldquo;...but earth was given to the sons of man&rdquo; Jesus stood in the face of the demon, not as the Son of God but as the Son of Man. Jesus, being perfect and without sin, had reclaimed the authority that had once been given, and forfeited by Adam. He was reclaiming that dominion, and the demon hadn&rsquo;t received the memo.<br /><br />What happens next is so powerful! He COMMANDED the spirit! What he commanded him to do is really not important. The fact of the matter is, Jesus took control of the situation and proclaimed the authority that He was now giving back to mankind. In essence, Jesus replied to the demon, &ldquo;You are my business&rdquo;, And he showed him who was boss. Now, it&rsquo;s crucial that we realize that Jesus didn&rsquo;t do this as God (of course he was God) but he carried this out as a man in right standing before God.<br /><br />Now, as you and I partake in the resurrection of Jesus Christ, we are grafted into a bloodline, not of fallen Adam, but of victorious Jesus! And this authority to retake dominion from the evil one is our Right as Sons and Daughters of the Most High!<br /><br />I challenge you to walk in this authority today!</font></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph">About the Author<br /><strong><font size="4">Devin Peterson, B.S., M.Div.</font></strong></div>  <div class="paragraph">Devin Peterson is a passionate writer with a heart for prayer and intercession. He has earned his Bachelor of Science in General Ministry from West Coast Bible College and Seminary and his Master of Divinity (M.Div.) with an emphasis in Biblical Languages from Luther Rice College and Seminary. As the youngest son of Kevin Peterson (the founder of RFM) he has been a part of the ministry his entire life. Currently, he serves as President and Chairman of RFM. Devin lives in Mansfield, Texas with his wife Ashley and their 3-year-old Yorkshire-poodle.&nbsp;</div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>